The Filipinos are one of a kind and people all over the world just love saying how much they love the country and its people. Well, basically because the Filipinos are heartwarming and hospitable lot and they can go leaps and bounds in showing that especially to guests.
Foreigners are perpetually drawn to the magnet that is the Philippines. Albeit an easy-to-please country, some helpful tips on basic do’s and don’ts will make your stay even more memorable.
Keep the Do’s handy:
- Use honorifics or familial words
You should know that the people are courteous and respectful. “Sir” and “Ma’am” or “Madam” are used by the Filipinos to each and every new kid on the block. For travellers, try using familial words like “Tita” for Aunt, “Tito” for Uncle or just about any elder you bump into, “kuya” or “ate” (brother and sister, respectively) for the much younger brood but maybe older than you. The word “Po” will earn you that genuine smile that is so scarce in this world. “Po”, by the way is a word indicative of respect.
- Be friendly
The Filipinos are by nature very friendly people. Smile is something that never runs out (even if there’s no food on the table) in any situation. A reciprocal friendliness will get you the best friends one can ever find in the world.
- Have a good sense of humor
Filipinos can take anything in stride and by just making fun out of even the most trying circumstances. Take time to laugh with them and see the genuine appreciation for the gesture.
- A simple Thank You
Hospitality is a trait commonly shared by every Filipino. Tourists and travellers often get the experience first-hand and they are quite surprised with the kind of welcoming hearts the people have in this country. A simple Thank You for any favor done will be gratifying for them.
- Wave back
Strangers or no strangers, the people love to wave at people anytime, anywhere. This is their way of saying they do appreciate your coming to the country (for whatever reason or purpose) and that they would be happy to see you again. Waving back is
acknowledging their presence and that simple gesture will make them very pleased.
Beware of the Don’ts:
- Don’t be flashy
Most targeted by scammers and pickpockets are those flashing out their wealth. It is always recommended that tourists don’t come in with valuables flashed around. Keep them and use them only when in a safe environment, and not on the street.
- Don’t lose temper
You may encounter some people in the places that you travel to who only speak their dialect. Don’t show irritation when talking to them. Instead try to find someone who can at least understand a little English to get your message across.
- Don’t refuse food
Filipinos are hospitable and they will offer food to guests every chance they get. That’s part of the hospitality they are so known for. Don’t refuse especially if they made the effort to cook them for you.
- Don’t walk the streets alone
If you are in the metropolis or the rural areas, it is not advisable to walk the streets alone. As a foreigner, you will easily get the attention of people and some of them may not be as heartwarming as the others.
When walking, remember to: (this is not necessarily applicable or true in all places, but just a warning)
- Keep your bags close to you and in front of you
- Do not show off cellphone, iPod or any other electronic gadget.
- Do not put your wallet in the rear pocket.
- Do not leave valuables if staying in hotels. Keep the valuables with you all the time or Keep it in the safe.
- Walk in groups if going out at night
- Walk away from local groups in a drinking session. This usually spells trouble.
As in any other country, travellers will encounter some isolated cases of unpleasant experience with few rascals. Generally, the Filipinos are accommodating, friendly and nice to guests. They want the foreigners to experience the Filipino hospitality when they come and visit.
